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It’s that time. After debuting the show in an extended episode several months ago, BET’s Being Mary Jane premieres tonight at 10 p.m. (The hour-and-a-half pilot airs first at 8 p.m.) Created by Girlfriends and The Game creator Mara Brock Akil, it gets the benefit of the unintended publicity that star Gabrielle Union brought now that she is engaged and dealing with a public cheating scandal at the same time. Her fiancée, Miami Heat star Dwyane Wade has admitted to fathering a child outside their relationship on a “break,” though did their research and claims the supposed break is a front.

What that means to the often-photographed couple in real life, we don’t know. Wade has publicly admitted to fathering a son, Xavier, born in December with Aja Netoyer, who also has two daughters with Damon Wayans, Jr. Via her Twitter feed, Union has responded by telling followers, essentially that it’s life and choice how she handles it. But what does it mean for Union’s reel life?

On Being Mary Jane, she plays Mary Jane Paul, a TV show hostess negotiating relationships, her dysfunctional family, a tough career, and her friendships. In other words, Paul sounds like a lot of us. Although the fictional Paul juggles it all from a ridiculously fly house while driving a Porsche Panamera, the show proves that even a financially thriving Black woman still deals with her fair share of issues.

In Paul’s case, her demanding mother is in an empty marriage and suffering from lupus (and loneliness, we suspect) her unmarried niece is pregnant for the second time, her brothers are dealing with familiar Black man problems and even her doctor girlfriend is self-medicating her depression. Then there are the men of Being Mary Jane – her ex-boyfriend who cheated is back, but so is a married man that despite her better judgement, she can’t leave alone. His wife is also part of the picture as the two women have met and talked.

Complicated? Yes. And like most of us, Mary Jane has made life choices she regrets and dealt with situations that could have broken her. And also like many of us, Mary Jane is doing a lot for others but the support she is getting from her family and friends for her own problems is negligible. Up until the news broke about Wade’s indiscretion, Union looked like she had an enviable life, posing on Instagram and Twitter with other Miami Heat wives and girlfriends in smiling photos in cute outfits.

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